Know what it is: What’s it like to be on the other side of me, Autopsy of the common denominator, Imagine how people describe me and what words they use?

Consider not your resume, but your eulogyv- how do you want to be described? That’s your personal culture.

Focus on #2: It can be changed. Your ethos is not personality, it interacts with your personality, its your soul. Evidence that it can be changed: Chronic Pain, Difficulty & Hardship, Success. And if it can be changed from outside forces, it can be changed because of personal intention.